It's SOS Tuesday! Chan needs your help! My name is Chan and Im a divorcee. I’ve been seeing a lady for the past 2 years. I never thought I could find love again after my divorce 5 years ago. My girlfriend has 2 kids from a previous marriage and I have 1. Her kids are in their early teens and my son is only 10. The problem I have has nothing to do with the adults… but with the kids. My girlfriend treats her kids with oven mitts and they walk all over her! She doesn’t let them do anything, like set the table, wash the dishes, help bring in the groceries. While my son, has been taught to help, sometimes without even asking! When I try to get her kids to do something, like set the table, she tells me not to bother them! She wants them to concentrate on their studies and nothing else. They are ‘A’ grade students and go to a lot of tuition (so I can understand they are tired), but they have no manners and they are spoilt! It has been the source of a few arguments and although they can get an A in math, they can't boil an egg! I love this lady but I don’t think I can be with someone who can’t put their foot down with their kids! Advice? So let's help him together. The question for today is.... "Can you be in a relationship with someone who lets their kids walk all over them?" Share your thoughts with us at 9543 3333 or post your comments here.